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Ways to fixing the adverse effect of technology (mobile devices) on our relationships

Unarguably, technology has affected relationships adversely and those who were not patient enough to figure things out have had to end their relationships.

It would also interest you to know that asides romantic relationships, technology has affected relationships between family members, friends, acquaintances, co-workers and the likes. To fix this mess, it is crucial to strike a balance between using technology and maintaining our relationships.

Below are ways to fix the negative effects of technology

Effective Communication

No one likes discussing with someone whose mind is not in the conversation. When you are having interactions with people, it is vital to put away distractions for that moment. Discussions cannot last forever and what you are doing on your devices can wait except if it is very urgent.

In that case, you can take permission from the person you are discussing to either postpone the discussion or give you some minutes to complete your task.

Setting priorities with technology use

If you discover that your partner or friends always complain about how you use the internet or your phone in general, it is necessary not to ignore these complaints. You should not overlook this because if everyone is complaining about the same thing, then you need to make corrections.

To help yourself, you can set a strict schedule for yourself when you attend to other tasks without the intrusion of technology use. This would help you to be productive in other areas of your life.

Prioritize talking time with your romantic partner

If you are physically or virtually present with your partner, you need to show them enough respect by limiting your technology use for that moment. Your partner needs to know that you value them enough to hold conversations without being distracted by any external factor.

One of the ways to prevent conflicts in relationships is to avoid doing things that are conventionally not right. Using technology the right way averts relationship issues.